How to Love Someone Who Always Breaks Your Heart

Edited by Alexis Doaty, Daniel McCreery, Laura, Leila and 7 others

If you think you're in love, you wouldn't have a problem falling in love with your lover. Most people in relationships don't intend on hurting their mate, but sometimes they can't help it. Don't judge them because they continue to mess up if you truly love them, because it will only make it worse. This article will teach you how to love someone that always breaks your heart.

Steps

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   Know that your mate is probably upset with how he/she treated you, and don't make him/her feel any worse than what he/she already feels. Try telling him or her how you feel but don't be aggressive, because that can run your mate off. Be calm and kind no matter how mad your lover makes you. If you can show him or her that you're able to forgive and forget, that will show him or her your love and you'll feel better inside.
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   Make every moment with your lover a special moment, and don't be bossy.When you're with your lover, think of the things that you have done together that made your relationship better. Try doing that, and try to make your relationship even better.
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   Tell them how much you love your lover, even if they hurt you at times.However, don't word it like that; reword it and make your lover feel special. Show him or her that you're beyond having a fit or being fussy, and that no matter what he or she does, you still love him or her the same.
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   Be more of an "animal" in bed or during intimate time. When your lover sees what he or she missed out on because of hurting you, he or she will love you more and you'll love him or her too. Do things that your lover thought you'd never do sexually, and don't be shy. Go for it like you know what you're doing, even if you really don't.
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Tips

• If you're not sure how to do this, wait a little longer before talking to your lover again about the relationship and wear things that you know they like seeing you in. However, don't make it obvious that you're trying to get their attention; that will be a total turn off.